Asking little ones to stand still for a whole 30 minutes is a recipe for grumpiness—and demanding compliance will get you tears and tantrums. (ask me how I know) Now, in other situations in life, it might be time to lay down the law or remove the child from their situation but that doesn’t really work when you’re trying to get photos of them without tears. My solution to this is to keep the session moving. We never stay in one spot. We only a certain pose for a few minutes before continuing our walk down the path. A change of scenery and not standing around in one spot really helps the kiddos stay engaged. And if they’re feeling especially jittery, I let them jump around or dancing it out. Not only does it make them feel like they are in control (and not this stranger they don’t know) but they also have fun and give us some cute natural smiles!
The Kids Are Alright
Seeing the Bride and Family Photos Don't Have to be Boring
Kaitlyn wanted to do a first look with her bridesmaids, her dad, and her brother so with the help of the parents, I made it happen! First she came out and did the first look with the bridesmaids, then we did bridesmaids photos and photos with her and her mom. Than I had mom go get dad for a first look and after that her brother came out and we did a family photo with her parents and siblings. Easy peasy and those are less photos that were needed after the ceremony!
Patience is the Key
Sometimes our littles are a bit camera shy and that’s okay! Sometimes bribes work, but I find that if we ignore them and start photographing other people, they eventually come around. Who wants to be left out of all the fun??? Plus, I have a fast button pressing finger so they just have to smile for a few seconds, haha